For as long as I can remember, I've always wanted to be a mom.
But when my husband and I had two kids within two years, I was drowning.
I knew how to clean. I loved having a tidy home. But getting it done in the middle of life and kids and chaos around me, I just couldn't figure out how to get all done.
It took years of trial and error, along with a fair bit of professional education, to find the strategies that actually helped me stay on top of housework consistently.

In this video, I walk through the three analog tools that carry my mental load without adding more to manage.
This is the basic overview of what the HomeFlow strategy is - and how to start.
If you feel like you're living Groundhog Day, cleaning up the same messes on endless repeat, you need this skill:
I LOVE index cards for managing the parts of my mental load that cycle weekly, monthly, and longer. But HomeFlow and S.H.E. use index cards very differently...